Feminism and The Burden of the Approach

Imagine a world where men and women were truly equal. Not just equal on an economic level, but on a societal level as well. This is what the feminists fought so long for, is it not? Think about dating. In order for any relationships, marriages, and procreation to occur, there must be an initial approach. Someone must break the ice. Someone must have the courage to walk up to a total stranger and say "hi" and subsequently spark interest and attraction through conversation.


That someone is a male, 90-95% of the time.


This does not sound like equality. Does it sound like equality to you? Why is it OK for feminists to be hypocrites on this particular issue? Women claim to be seen as equal to men in every way, but somehow this outdated social norm stayed in place. No, women do not want equality. Women still want men to approach and break the ice with them, ask for their number, set up dates in which the man pays, and later initiate a kiss or sex. She still expects him to get on one knee and ask for her hand in marriage. And still in most cases, she expects the man to be the breadwinner of the household.


Now what part of that says equality? We know that women are well within their means to meet men halfway on all of those things. So why don't they? All women benefit from the fruits of feminism whether they claim to be one or not.


Let's delve deeper into the burden of the approach. Let's examine the risks a man takes when he approaches a woman:


1. Rejection- This one is obvious. As men we expect to be rejected often and we are never given a reason for it. A woman will rarely tell you the real reason that she is rejecting you. She will make up an excuse, but you will never know what you did wrong or what is particularly wrong with you. This is especially troubling since it means that there is no way to improve because the man has gained no knowledge for the rejection. It could have be for anything. Only her, God and her girlfriends know


2. Embarrassment- Now I've been in many clubs and bars. I've had some success and some failures. Embarrassment is really an interesting occurrence. It can only happen when there is a power balance in a given dialogue. It happens when one party has the upper hand and the other party has the lower. The party with the upper hand is almost always the woman. Since the man approached her first, he is lowering himself and putting himself at a disadvantage. Now he is in many ways at her mercy. She can toy with him if she wants. She can lead him on. She could be nice and reject him, or be mean and reject him. She could even accept him and decide she doesn't like him later. The point is, there is an infinite amount of ways a woman could handle a man that has approached her. I'll give a recent example that happened to me in a bar. I came up to a pretty woman and started a conversation. Her and her friends were taking pictures so I jumped in on one. I was being spontaneous and having fun. She seemed to as well. After a few minutes, I asked her for a dance. She replied, "I'm not dancing with any guys tonight". Right there I knew she did not want anything to do with me, at least romantically. I took it in stride. Because it was a crowded bar, I really didn't have many places to walk to. So I stood around for a while. After a minute or so, she got up out of her seat and started dancing with random guys, right in front of me. Now you may ask yourself, "why would she do such a cold, rude thing?" Well I don't know and I never will. But what I do know is that there are many women out there just like this and because men are at such a blatant disadvantage and are always at a low position, they are at risk of this kind of thing happening to them all the time at social gatherings.


3. Physical Violence- That's right. There is a tendancy for women to say in their heads, "you and him fight". Women like drama. They thrive on it. One of the things they love is when two men fight over them. So whenever you see a bar fight, it usually involves a woman. It usually occurs because some woman felt like seeing her man beat up another man. Such is the cold hearted nature of most Western Women. I'll even give an example from my experience in a club: I approached a girl and out of nowhere some guy came up and tried to start a fight with me. I thought it was clear that she was single, but you never know I guess. She didn't do anything to provoke this exchange, but as you can imagine I put myself at great risk just by trying to talk to a girl. So to the women that say "just be yourself and approach a girl we don't bite! We'll be flattered that you came up to us!", you're full of it.



This is what men are reduced to. This is what men face everyday. Rejection, embarrassing, and physical violence. These are things that women never have to face in the dating scene. They just sit there like the conceited cunts they are and accept or deny advances. That is all a woman has to do: accept or deny advances.


This brings me to a recent controversy involving a feminist, Rebecca Watson. Everything started with a awkward moment in an elevator. She got on and there was one other man. The man complimented her by saying she was interesting. He then proceeded to ask her if she wanted to have coffee in his room. She of course made this video later complaining about how he was sexually objectifying her and other bullshit.






Does she realize that men will die virgins if they do not risk such awkward moments? Does she have any appreciation for his compliment? It seems as though Rebecca Watson and other feminists like her do everything in their power to shun, ridicule, and suppress male sexuality.


In her perfect world, half of the male population would be imprisoned for improperly approach women.